I think everyone of us is facing these kind of distrust from our parent. Do they know that this kind of actions will cause us to stay apart from them? Do you hate the feelings that your parents blame you for anything but you are innocent?
For me personally hate my parents for not trusting me in some ways. I felt very sad when i told them i got conflict with my friends. Their first thought is blaming me acting selfish and not being friendly to my bitch friends. =.=''' That moment i really felt terribly sad and depress that my parents don't know my character. Till today i can't find the correct answer on why they like to blame me if anything goes wrong. Can anyone help me to heal this loop hole done by them? Every time, i tried my very best to show my best appearance to everyone and even in front of them. What am i hiding from them? Can anyone tell me?
I think my family lifestyle was a bit weird. We hardly talk about a matter happily as the other families do except when i'm young. The topic goes around my family and relatives is the rumors of the family members. Do you think that's ethical? As i grow up, i felt i barely have any topics talk to my family. Is the problem occur on me? Why am i that person who always ge scolded? Sometimes those words that my parents scolded at me, i do remember them but i acted normally after the scolding. I really felt sad and wanted to run away from the house at that very moment. Last year my mom gave me a slap for no reason and said i'm the person who brings bad luck to the family. My tears drop straight away and keep questioning myself on what i had done to cause her angry or she just do it to release her stress. I can't even differentiate all those answers who came into my mind. The next feeling is i felt unfair to receive this slap from my mom. Why didn't she slap my brother for what he did to her who was so much serious but she did it on me. Is that every mother will pamper their son more than their daughters? Or I'm the odd one? Or the opposite direction?
I think parents should trust their children in some place. Don't always think that they are always right in the way of solving things. Children also can solve their problems. And think wisely on words you use while you scolding them. Parents if you are reading this post, do try out my advice and avoid my case to happen in your family.
p/s: i can't continue with this post bcoze too much sad memory is coming out from my mind. I'm crying like a cry baby....wuwuwu...
For me personally hate my parents for not trusting me in some ways. I felt very sad when i told them i got conflict with my friends. Their first thought is blaming me acting selfish and not being friendly to my bitch friends. =.=''' That moment i really felt terribly sad and depress that my parents don't know my character. Till today i can't find the correct answer on why they like to blame me if anything goes wrong. Can anyone help me to heal this loop hole done by them? Every time, i tried my very best to show my best appearance to everyone and even in front of them. What am i hiding from them? Can anyone tell me?
I think my family lifestyle was a bit weird. We hardly talk about a matter happily as the other families do except when i'm young. The topic goes around my family and relatives is the rumors of the family members. Do you think that's ethical? As i grow up, i felt i barely have any topics talk to my family. Is the problem occur on me? Why am i that person who always ge scolded? Sometimes those words that my parents scolded at me, i do remember them but i acted normally after the scolding. I really felt sad and wanted to run away from the house at that very moment. Last year my mom gave me a slap for no reason and said i'm the person who brings bad luck to the family. My tears drop straight away and keep questioning myself on what i had done to cause her angry or she just do it to release her stress. I can't even differentiate all those answers who came into my mind. The next feeling is i felt unfair to receive this slap from my mom. Why didn't she slap my brother for what he did to her who was so much serious but she did it on me. Is that every mother will pamper their son more than their daughters? Or I'm the odd one? Or the opposite direction?
I think parents should trust their children in some place. Don't always think that they are always right in the way of solving things. Children also can solve their problems. And think wisely on words you use while you scolding them. Parents if you are reading this post, do try out my advice and avoid my case to happen in your family.
p/s: i can't continue with this post bcoze too much sad memory is coming out from my mind. I'm crying like a cry baby....wuwuwu...
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